Earlier this week, TikToker @amber_louisetilley learned a very important lesson about the TikTok hellscape – the only thing harder than giving birth is defending your husband for watching football during your labor.

“When I joked about going into labor whilst his football team were playing the entire pregnancy and I actually did,” she joked before flaunting their set-up, consisting of her man hunched over a laptop on an adjacent table broadcasting the game.

Though @amber_louisetilley appeared to take her husband’s priority – “taking football isn’t just football to a new level,” she captioned the clip, which has since amassed more than 4.1 million views – several other TikTokers (reasonably) had some concerns, all of which she vehemently thwarted.

“I would never do this to my wife bringing me a child